i may not agree with what u say, but i'll fight for ur right to speak it out loud

one of my best friends (fadia) wrote in her own blog about mine, and she described me as an ( arguer by nature ), some people would consider that as a bad thing in ones character , specially for a girl, For me being an arguer is one of the things that i like about myself. But i wouldn't call it arguing ,coz the word brings me a picture of tow politicians fighting :S, i call it discussion and may be sometimes i get over excited and i start supporting my opinions with facts and clues , but still it's not arguing :\ .

And you know what annoys me most about some people ?

the way they are handling other's different opinions. I remember having a conversation with one of my friends and we were discussing a subject that we both had an extremely different opinions about. I was calm all the time we were talking , even though sometimes she was saying things that doesn't make sense at all :S, but what got into me and made me really angry that when she was running out of good excuses to support what she was saying she start judging and she called me secularist "3elmanyyah" and she told me that i was so wrong and i should "araje3 nafsi" at that point i realized that there is no point of talking to her and i got very angry, i slapped my hand on the table in front of me , to catch her attention coz she started ignoring me :\ , and i said to her : you should at least have some civilized attitude when you are having a conversation with anybody, and im not talking about the stupid judgment and the names calling coz this is way too hard for your brain to comprehend but at least look at me when im talking to you. The girl was shocked and her eyes were wide open , i realized i was a little hard on her and i apologized trying to explain myself.

everyone has all the right in the world to speak up and say whatever s\he believes in , and they deserve to be heard .

In a country were we "as women" have to agree to whatever men says and we "as arabs" have no freedom of speech , we should at least be able to express ourselves among the small, safe societies that we created for ourselves from our family and friends.

anyhow, i could go on and on and never stop :P

tell me what you think :D

What is normal ????

Tonight, and out of extreme boredom, I watched a movie which I never heard a review about, don’t ask me why but I have to hear others opinions about a movie so at least i wont be disappointed when I don’t like it, anyhow I watched a movie for Sandra bolluock, GOD I love this woman, the movie entitled ( all about steve).

The movie in general was AMAZING, it talked about an abnormal girl trying to be normal and ,as usual , Sandra was hilarious and I loved the idea of a job in creating crossword games in the newspaper. It's the first time I actually thought about how much hard work this thing needs :\ , creating clues and new words and all.

Anyway, what I want to know is, who says what's normal and what's not??

Does being normal equals being right ?? and why is being like everyone else means that you are normal?

I've never in my life was considered normal. I suffered a little bit because of that but im proud of being an individual with my own unique way of thinking. Others always thought that im a source of trouble coz I speaked my mind out and never was afraid of what others thinks.

I think that being normal is overrated :\ . we all try to be normal by copying others. And how is that working for us ???

We all think it's the solution to fit in while the truth is being a one of your kind is a blessing :D

Back to the movie, it answered all of my previous questions. Everyone is considered normal, once you try to find ppl who is as normal as you :D

So, at the end it's a matter of perspective. No one is normal and at the same time everyone is normal :D

Hope you get what I mean .

Until next time, plz leave some comments :P

Finally, my blog :)

hey everyone,

im sitting here writing my first post in this blog. im glad i finally did it. i've always thought about doing it , i just needed a push. and i got pushed by my best friend fadda :) ..(thank u dear)

anyway, i hope u'll enjoy my writings which is basically life in the way i see it. or as i call it, life in my own flavor .

Rasha .